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最近流传的瑞士信贷女控诉渣打银行小三事件,其夫维护小三的回信

6已有 46704 次阅读  2010-03-16 21:26   标签渣打银行  瑞士  信贷  回信  控诉 
刚忙着去8卦这个帖子,花都忘记收了。
 
 
-----邮件原件-----

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发件人: Zhang, Lily [mailto:lily.zhang@credit-suisse.com]
发送时间: 2010年2月23日 10:23
收件人: Tao, Diane; yiyang_tao@ml.com; Sun, Yonghong; Winn, Sean; Stevens, Joe; Dawson, Andrew; Morrison, Alastair; Huh, Charles; Chu, Mabel; Yee, Andrew; cici779200@yahoo.com.cn; liyi@junhe.com; delh@junhe.com; josieshen@sbcglobal.net; xy@vicap.com; dcwyml@hotmail.com; charles@chicapital.com; euniqueyoung@yahoo.com.hk; Shiu, Ruby; taeyubkim@sc.com; Lai, Daniel Xiao Ming; Li, Sherry Shao Ling; Yang, Sean; Zhang, Ting; Cheung, Clara Siu Yum; Wang, Cindy Xi; Zhu, Wei; xujane@gmail.com; Prince, Jamaliah
抄送: Yale Yang
主题: Dear friends ... Moving on ..

Dear friends,
After 13 years and 2 beautiful children together, Yale and I have parted our ways. Yale moved out last week.

Dear Diane/Tao Dan Yang,
Over the past couple of years, you knew everything about my family. You knew when my kids had their soccer tournaments, you knew when they had their swimming practices. You even knew their baby nicknames. On December 18th, 2009, on a noon flight, I took my children to the U.S. for Christmas vacation. On the very same day, December 18th, 2009, on an afternoon flight, you and Yale took off for the beaches of Phuket and shopping streets of Bangkok for Christmas vacation. Diane, as a fellow woman, I often wondered if the level of ecstasy this vacation had brought you equates to the level of devastation this vacation had brought to my children and me. Diane, I often asked myself what was it like for you to sleep in the arms of another woman's husband, other children's father? I wondered if you ever thought about us, the children and the wife, that we are made of flesh and blood, that we have feelings, that we could get hurt, very hurt, devastatingly hurt. I pondered if you knew you were destroying a family, if you knew your joy would bring endless tears to us.

We went to Beijing last week for Chinese New Year. Your clothes were in our Beijing home. My son screamed:" Mommy, don't touch those, they are disgusting! Set them on fire, burn them to hell. They are the devil's cloth!" My children are hurt. My daughter, 9 years old, now says "Mommy, I don't ever want to get married." My son, 8 years old, says "Diane is our Voldemort!" The psychological damage this affair has done to my children is catastrophic. They are forever emotionally damaged. With this, I announce you the winner.
How do I feel, Diane? This affair is like 10 thousand knives stabbing and chopping my heart all at once. This affair has left me in so much pain that I don't know how to heal myself. This affair has taught me tear supply can actually be infinite. This affair has crushed me, leaving me a corpse walking around with no heart. I don't know how to deal with this kind of pain. I don't know how to move on. But I have children. I must move on. Diane, I pray to God that you will never have to experience this kind of betrayal and hurt. I wish you and Yale a happy life together because, after all, we are all women and we all deserve to be happy.

With sincere regards,
Lily

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发件人: Yale Yang [mailto:yale.yang@gbridge.biz]
发送时间: 2010年2月23日 11:14
收件人: Zhang, Lily
抄送: Tao, Diane; yiyang_tao@ml.com; Sun, Yonghong; Winn, Sean; Stevens, Joe; Dawson, Andrew; Morrison, Alastair; Huh, Charles; Chu, Mabel; Yee, Andrew; cici779200@yahoo.com.cn; liyi@junhe.com; delh@junhe.com; josieshen@sbcglobal.net; xy@vicap.com; dcwyml@hotmail.com; charles@chicapital.com; euniqueyoung@yahoo.com.hk; Shiu, Ruby; taeyubkim@sc.com; Lai, Daniel Xiao Ming; Li, Sherry Shao Ling; Yang, Sean; Zhang, Ting; Cheung, Clara Siu Yum
主题: Re: Dear friends ... Moving on ...

Lily,

Please do not bring the personal issues to the public. The truth of the facts is that our marriage had been falling apart 8 years ago, divorce had been in discussion 5 years ago. Our issues are known to all the people in the word! Diane had done nothing wrong for her part! I am firmly standing by and behind Diane. I will certainly hope she will marry me one day soon!

Trying to tell the people how evil I am and Diane is in this way is not going to succeed! All the people, who knows you, me and our marriage, supported my divorce, including my good friend Zhu Wei. I am sorry I have dragged everyone into this. Lily please move on!

Sincerely yours

Yale
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  • 豆蔻 2010-03-16 22:09
    瓦,偶无语了。凭两封信看不出什么真相,最可怜的是孩子, 这个当父亲的看上去没有一点为孩子着想的意思, 真是只见新人笑哪闻旧人哭呀。
  • ketteringye 2010-03-16 22:19
    CactusFairy: 瓦,偶无语了。凭两封信看不出什么真相,最可怜的是孩子, 这个当父亲的看上去没有一点为孩子着想的意思, 真是只见新人笑哪闻旧人哭呀。
    是的呀,小孩子太可怜了,至于事件本身我们不知道不予置评,8过原配用公司邮件发这种信我还是有点汗啊。
    男人和女人的区别就在要抛弃家庭奔向新欢的时候,杀人不眨眼的都是男人。
  • 刺客 2010-03-17 00:11
    同意楼上的,女人可怜。拖了5年都没离成的婚,这一下子不保了。男人为什么不考虑一下妻子和孩子呢?婚姻中其实没多少事情是真的挽救、补救不了的。只是大家不用心吧。
  • 夜夜笙歌 2010-03-17 08:55
    这个怎么会流传开的?是原配首先发难吗?
  • ketteringye 2010-03-17 09:30
    yeyeshengge: 这个怎么会流传开的?是原配首先发难吗?
    嗯,是原配开始的,至于怎么流出来的,o(∩_∩)o...   邮件写给那么多人,丈夫明显就是个FYI,那么多人中保不齐会转出来的,现在google一下到处都有啊。
  • 夜夜笙歌 2010-03-17 09:32
    ketteringye: 嗯,是原配开始的,至于怎么流出来的,o(∩_∩)o...   邮件写给那么多人,丈夫明显就是个FYI,那么多人中保不齐会转出来的,现在google一下到处都有啊。
    感觉原配是破釜沉舟,面子里子都不要了。
  • ketteringye 2010-03-17 09:39
    yeyeshengge: 感觉原配是破釜沉舟,面子里子都不要了。
    是呀,这个时候也很难维持冷静,要不然也不会头脑发热到用公司邮件,我觉得这个实在有点寒,不过我估计也就是要搞臭小三,毕竟圈子很小,涉及的都是投行那帮人,一些论坛上帖出来,居然有不少人从邮件地址里看到熟人,于是纷纷八卦去了。
  • 夜夜笙歌 2010-03-17 09:45
    ketteringye: 是呀,这个时候也很难维持冷静,要不然也不会头脑发热到用公司邮件,我觉得这个实在有点寒,不过我估计也就是要搞臭小三,毕竟圈子很小,涉及的都是投行那帮人,
    其实有点得不偿失。不是给旁人增加笑料吗?
  • ketteringye 2010-03-17 09:50
    嗯,不知道,没经历过可能不能体会原配的心情,估计小三太嚣张了,丈夫回信也看出来事情做的太绝了,申明8年前就没感情,小儿子才8岁,那当时生个p啊。看到小孩那几句话,我觉得小孩太可怜了。
  • 比寂寞还孤 2010-03-17 16:13
    这么搞 广发信也没意思!找个好律师, 好好离婚, 就成了沉默转身就走人, 是多自己和孩子的自尊最大的保护了.
  • ketteringye 2010-03-17 18:36
    女事主用公司资源做这个的确头脑热过头了,8过据内部人士爆料,其实女事主早提出离婚,而且大概价钱也谈拢了,已经在filing了,突然爆发这封信大概是小三和男人太杀人不眨眼了,居然CC所有人大秀恩爱。很多朋友固然觉得原配这样很不冷静但是也觉得男人这样公然维护小三太难看。然后估计原配彻底崩溃,好嘞,现在一个离婚搞的全球闻名,据说已经上了bloomberg。
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